Shawn Finch and Alliya de Batista’s relationship issues on90 Day Fiancéseason 11 havemade viewers curious about whether they are still together.Alliya first met Shawnon a dating app in 2020 when she was living in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil.Love In Paradisedocumented Shawn coming to terms with Alliya’s transition and subsequent personality change after having been together for several years at that point. Shawn’s struggles to commit to monogamy also resulted in relationship trouble. However,Shawn and Alliya took their long-distance relationshipto the next step by applying for her K-1 visa.
Alliya moved to California in90 Day Fiancéseason 11.Alliya began living with Shawnin his Spanish-style West Hollywood home. The situation was tense with Shawn having kept his plan to marry her a secret from most people in his life, including his kids from his first marriage. It appears Shawn’s ex-wife didn’t know he was gay for 14 years.The LA-based hairstylist seems to be good at keeping secrets, but with his life being filmed for the world to see on TV,90 Day Fiancéfans wish to know if things worked out between him and Alliya.
Shawn Met Alliya Before She Transitioned
Shawn Is Still In Love With Douglas
Alliya used to be a young man named Douglas when Shawn met her. Their relationship was complicated inLove In Paradisebecause Alliya was assigned male at birth. Alliya used to wear makeup, but she wore men’s clothing and hairstyles. They were together for a year and a half until they went to a pride event in Spain, and Douglas wanted to try drag. Once they went shopping, and Douglas put on a wig, Douglas became a new person. Three years into their relationship, Shawn seemed to regret that he had helped in the birth of Alliya.
Instead of ending the relationship, Shawn made comments such as that he never wanted to be with a woman. Shawn had fallen for Douglas and Alliya’s queen bee personality was not for him. Meanwhile, Alliya wished for Shawn to forget her past and accept the new her. Shawn was and is in love with Douglas and mourns the relationship they had. Alliya needed to be with someone who was not in love with someone she used to be in the past.
Shawn & Alliya Were In An Open Relationship
Shawn Kept Alliya A Secret From His Family & Friends
Another major challenge in the relationship is their age gap. Shawn is 36 years older than Alliya, suggesting they were doomed from the start.Shawn kept deadnaming Alliyato the point that she had to ask him to stop. Shawn needed to accept that this situation wasn’t what he signed up for and move on. Instead, Shawn was having casual sex with other men behind Alliya’s back without caring about her needs or discussing monogamy with her. When Alliya openly asked Shawn if his friends and family were aware of their relationship, he said that only a few were.
Shawn & Alliya Are Still Together In April 2025
Shawn & Alliya Spotted Together In West Hollywood
In April 2025, Reddit userNo_Afternoon5665confirmed Alliya and Shawn’s current relationship status with proof in pictures. The90 Day Fiancéseason 11 couple are still together after the show ended. Alliya moved to America in April 2024 on a K-1 visa, so that means they got married and Alliya has completed a year of being Shawn’s wife, and there seem to have been no complications since. Shawn and Alliya were grocery shopping in West Hollywood and looked happy while doing it behind the cameras.
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90 Day Fiancé follows international couples navigating the challenges of cultural differences and family dynamics under the pressure of a 90-day fiancé visa in the pursuit of marriage and lasting love. Released in 2014, the series explores the complexities of cross-border relationships within the set timeframe.
